OK. Ill drop you off there. "I had him in the under-19s and remember a game against Hungary in the Faroe Isles. Whether you like him or hate him, he sticks to what he says. He was impressed by Labour's plans to commit 5% of Premier League football's 8.3billion broadcasting revenue back into the grassroots game, among other reasons. People might say to me 'You don't look like you did 20 years ago'. [51] Comparing the two title wins (1985 and 1987), Southall said that the latter success was "more rewarding and satisfying" as it had proved to be "more of a struggle" compared to the ease in which the title was won in the former campaign. Before he begins talking animatedly for two hours about sex workers, mental health, skeletons, transgender issues, Theresa May, the agony of Loris Karius, the hounding of Raheem Sterling, why Piers Morgan is a massive cock, how to annoy Vladimir Putin, the World Cup and his dream of uniting disenfranchised people, Southall is on the brink of cancelling this interview. 2 Baths. That was the only recognition I needed, knowing I'd helped make every single one of them happy that day.". You cant change it, he says when asked how he would console Karius. [90] Both Southend and Stoke would end the season bottom of their respective divisions and Everton only avoided relegation on the last day of the season. But Southall soon rolls on. [57] In an emotional match in the aftermath of the Hillsborough disaster in the semi-final encounter with Nottingham Forest, Liverpool won the cup with a 32 extra-time victory. [161][162][163][164] He was voted FWA Footballer of the Year in 1985, making him the last goalkeeper to be given the award. [64] They also reached the final of the Full Members Cup at Wembley, losing 41 to Crystal Palace, though Southall refused to collect his runners-up medal as he did not value the competition. Those drivers just seem to go round and round bends the whole time - and that's what we do with our roads in Wales!". [35] The replay was held at Maine Road, and Liverpool won the tie 10 with a Graeme Souness goal. [129], He had a spell as Wales under-19 coach, but quit his post in November 2004, claiming he was treated with "a total lack of respect" and that the coaching was compromised because "as always, it's about money. The former Everton hero has dumped Eryl and 10-year-old Samantha to start a new life at the opposite end of the country. "I was concentrating so hard on what I did with Everton I was never that way inclined to get involved in anything else. "We just don't seem to have individuals any more and that's sad.". Born Llandudno, North Wales, 16 September 1958. Thanks to Neville, men bereaved by suicide will now have a voice when we present our study to government., SWARM [Sex Worker Advocacy and Resistance Movement], The response from Nevs followers has been incredible. From racism in football to the killing of George Floyd and the ongoing reckoning around race, Neville's guests tackle a wide range of topics, share their experiences, and provide insight into the issue of racial equity. "The Government say the furlough scheme will not continue, thousands are facing redundancy. Typically, he says, OK, then, as we settle down for one of the most exhaustive and unusual conversations Ive had under the modest banner of a sports interview. "So Gareth is either off, has a limp or is wary of the next challenge. Not me. At 59 Neville Southall's life does not resemble that of many former top-level footballers. "I'm loving helping out. But what were trying to do in this country is stop everybody dreaming. But his record-breaking career is more a platform to enable Southall to raise awareness of "a number of issues I consider to be important.". 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Theyre basically saying: Youre too good so youve got to take these tablets to slow you down. Thats not fair. But I know people should be allowed to live the lives they want within reason. [83], Howard Kendall returned again to manage Everton for the 199798 season and initially dropped Southall. I started looking around for something else to do, spoke to the school. He works in a special needs school in Ebbw Vale. [38] Southall made one particularly crucial save from a point-blank Mark Falco header in a 21 win over title chasers Tottenham Hotspur at White Hart Lane on 3 April. [19] However, he never played for Connor as he was replaced by Jim Iley before the start of the 198081 season; despite this managerial change he was still seen as the future replacement to club stalwart John Forrest. "Even then, though, I'm not sure their defence could have coped with our front three. "Look after your people first, then plan everything else, including HS2, after that. They hurt, they cry. [56] More significantly, he kept goal against Liverpool in the 1989 FA Cup Final after conceding only two goals in the seven games en route to the final. "I feel the way things have gone has cost Great Britain from being as one. They might have witnessed some of the worst things possible in the world, deserve better than just being sent back to that again. [92] He saved a penalty on his debut at Plainmoor, in a 20 win over Hull City and signed a contract lasting until the end of the 199899 campaign. In his timely new book, Mind Games, which is more about mental health than football, the one-word chapter titles are stark: Fear, Abuse, Failure, Improvement, Racism, Homophobia, Motivation or, more expansively, Helping Others and Getting Older. Neville Southall, pictured near his home in Llandeilo, has written a fascinating book with a difference for a footballer, focusing upon inequality. Thats stupid. He won a then record 92 caps for Wales between 1982-97, made almost 600 appearances for Everton and helped the Blues become the number one club in the country and perhaps Europe. If I made a mistake, and it was my fault we lost, I wanted to kill somebody. That would do me, he adds, with an endearingly sombre gaze after Ive asked him how he would like to change the world for the better after a terrible year. You can say whatever you want, and people will say: Oh, its only him. "Is Donald Trump going to listen, take away gasoline and stop people driving their big 4x4s? Former Everton goalkeeper Neville Southall speaks on the roadshow stage as supporters look on [117] A month away from his 39th birthday, he won his final cap against Turkey on 20 August 1997; the Turks won 64. We love people who allow us to say: Oh, hes a great loser. Fuck off. You either keep swimming or you drown. Im scared for this country, he says. Which subject had the biggest impact? He moved on to Everton for 150,000 in 1981 and established himself as the club's first-choice goalkeeper by the 198384 season. We also may change the frequency you receive our emails from us in order to keep you up to date and give you the best relevant information possible. But people listened because they are genuinely interested. Big Nev continued: "Wales have got to keep believing in themselves, but to continue the success we need to build our own stadium. [95] At the age of 41 years and 178 days he became the fourth oldest player in Premier League history. "I'm not the best organised, would have needed a couple of great coaches next to me. Mind Games by Neville Southall is published by Harper Collins. The Fiver: sign up and get our daily football email. One of the greatest goalkeepers of all time, he was originally signed for 150,000 from Bury, and he went on to amass a record 750 Everton. Do you think Theresa May could ignore them then?, Does he get followed by many politicians? But hes been the best English goalkeeper this season because I dont think Jack Butland has played enough. [118] Southall's 92 Welsh caps were a national record until surpassed by Chris Gunter in November 2018. He probably got an injunction. [119][120] He would spend hours reading books about boxing and golf to improve his balance and spring, and would focus on improving minor pieces of kit and behaviour, saying that "If I changed 100 things and got 1% better because of one of them, then it was worth it". [55] He kept goal in the final of the Full Members Cup (a largely unsuccessful tournament inspired by the ban on European football), as Everton were beaten 43 by Nottingham Forest. I like what makes people tick. Its simple really.. In Australia, the crisis support service Lifeline is 13 11 14. "The transport links north to south still aren't brilliant here, are they? Using football training as an incentive, he helped them seek work and with their next skills. All you have to do is click here and select the newsletter you want. It is the people who will get us through coronavuirus, not politicians. Southall was always one for speaking his mind in private if he felt something was wrong with Everton or Wales, but it tended to stay within the confines of the dressing room. There's a real need for political change in this country and if I can do my bit to raise awareness, then great. Im quite happy. Shes sold loads of books and shes obviously got talent but maybe shes of an age where she doesnt have knowledge about trans issues and maybe shes scared of it. [17], Southall's performances attracted the attention of Bury and Wigan Athletic, and he was convinced to sign with Bury after he was personally approached by manager Dave Connor. Neville has a big presence on Twitter and tells delegates that he regularly gets people "who message me that they want to kill themselves. He has 134,000 followers but, rather than plugging a product or spreading bile, Southall gives up his Twitter page regularly to people who would not normally have such a platform to address the challenges and inequities they face. [26] In August 2012, his autobiography The Binman Chronicles was released. [125] His managing stint at the Kent club was short and he was sacked in March 2002, after only a few months in charge, after the club's new owners decided to promote his assistant Clive Walker. I dont know everything there is to know about trans people, which is why I am always trying to learn more. [160] In the IFFHS World's Best Goalkeeper rankings he was listed fifth in 1987, seventh in 1988, ninth in 1989, and fourth in 1991. Neville Southall was born on 16 September 1958 in Llandudno, Carnarvonshire, Wales, UK. "People say 'Oh it'll last 150 years.' Southall applied for the vacant position, but Bobby Gould was chosen instead, who in turn named Southall and Ian Rush as his assistants. [43] He was voted BBC Wales Sports Personality of the Year in 1995.[165]. I think of Norman Whiteside scoring for Man United in the [1985] FA Cup final [which Everton lost 1-0]. [117] Southall only played the first half as Gould blamed him for the three goals he conceded his replacement Paul Jones went on to concede three himself in the second half. [89] Kamara resigned two months later, and caretaker-manager Alan Durban pulled Southall aside on his first day in charge to say "I'll let you manage the reserves, so long as you keep your head down, do whatever I tell you, and I won't tell everybody you're a bad influence". Ft. 2755 S Brandywood Cir, Mesa, AZ 85209. This 2story, 1,230 sf single-family detached unit is a rare gem, as very few of these popular designs . [65], Everton were a declining force, and finished 12th in the league in 199192 whilst exiting both the FA Cup and League Cup at the Fourth Round. Hasnt Boris done well otherwise? What has he done well? Or Clayton Blackmore? Southall and his Everton team-mates with the FA Cup after the 2-0 victory over Watford in the 1984 final. [67] Kendall resigned mid-way through the 199394 campaign and was replaced by Mike Walker Southall later described Walker as a man who loved his suntan more than football. I couldnt have been more wrong. [137] In addition to the daughter from his first marriage, he and his second wife also act as foster parents: a 2018 interview reported that they were looking after two children. I was glad Kane said: We should talk about winning it because they can., Is Southall looking forward to the World Cup? [4][10] He aspired to be a postman, and never believed that he would make a living playing football. I got 30,000 new followers within a week. Southall shows empathy for a fellow goalkeeper in Karius who endured a nightmarish Champions League final. Southall is beaten by Norman Whitesides shot in extra time at Wembley in 1985 as Manchester United won the FA Cup final 1-0. In the face of such fierce eloquence I can imagine Southall nodding and smiling, happy that the final words of this interview are not his own. Neville Southall and Alan Rough promote ticket sales at Hampden Park, Glasgow. The other day the Sun said they wouldnt name that bisexual footballer because they didnt think it was right. As such players don't seem to be as free, maybe they're over-coached. [20] He received specialist goalkeeping coaching from Wilf McGuinness. Southall, hearing of my hope for a detailed interview, is uncomfortable. [44] Limited to domestic competitions, Everton won the FA Charity Shield with a 20 win over Manchester United; during the celebrations Southall wore a T-shirt saying "I Love My Wife" as a symbolic gesture following tabloid stories of an alleged affair. We could have a museum, restaurant, hospitality. I bet at the World Cup he gets called a hopeless wanker. He has also worked extensively with disadvantaged children, and set up his own educational consultancy. There's a big world outside, but you're wrapped up in what you need to do. Also learn how He earned most of networth at the age of 62 years old? More importantly, Im learning new stuff. Join Facebook to connect with Neville Southall and others you may know. Kane said: We should talk about winning it. [46] Despite this set-back, he agreed to sign a six-year contract in December, which was then the longest contract the club had ever issued. I knew then we had a class keeper on our hands. We spoke to Wales goalkeeeping great Neville Southall, who turns 62 on September 16, about a new book with a difference he is bringing out, Follow the Welsh national football teams - sign up to our free email newsletter. "The strongly held political views were always in there when I was younger, I guess, but nobody wants you with an opinion as a footballer," he reflects. [32] Back at Everton he played the last four games of the 198283 season after Arnold picked up an injury. I wasnt sure his followers would respond because they say men dont talk and suicide bereavement is taboo. [140], He is a member of the trade union UNISON and serves as international officer for his branch. His personal thoughts are far from the usual ramblings and stereotypes perceived of retired footballers and celebrities and are guaranteed to get the readers mind going. We might get some stick. Nearby Recently Sold Homes. "I'd love him to smash it, go on and get 120 caps," says Southall. He takes time with each person to try and help them find stability and hope. And still are today for so many. "It can be anything, although I don't tend to go into the classroom. SOCCER legend Neville Southall walked out on his wife and daughter - just days before Christmas. "But there is too much of an us and them, or a rich and poor divide. The Sun will be following all of them footballers around, hoping they fuck up. If youre born into a male body but you feel so strongly that youre a female, why should I stop you? [47] However, he twisted his ankle ligaments on international duty with ten league games left to play. [8] The Swifts were a poor side that were regularly beaten heavily, though the near constant barrage of shots he faced enabled Southall to improve on his shot-stopping skills. "The players headed off to the party in the evening, but I felt no obligation to go. [4] He was educated at Ysgol John Bright,[4] though left without any qualifications at age 16. Just like Trump, he doesnt concentrate for any length of time. 'Let's have a go at these and see what happens', rather than ''Let's go out and smash them'. We didnt have much of a conversation. [111] Once again a death put Welsh footballing hopes into perspective, as Southall attended the funeral of retired postman John Hill, who was killed after being struck by a flare released at the end of the match. I feel even more uplifted when, in the following days, quotes pour in from some of those to whom he has offered a Twitter platform. Southall turns 62 on Wednesday but he is far from resigned to the way the world is reeling. Johnson and Trump are loose cannons. Neville Southall: Ive got a bit of flak because I stick up for sex workers | Donald McRae, When Neville Southall's stunning save at Spurs pushed Everton to the title, Original reporting and incisive analysis, direct from the Guardian every morning, Neville Southall, who turns 62 on Wednesday, Neville Southall: 'You dont expect loose cannons to take over your own country', want Boris Johnson, Nigel Farage, Tommy Robinson, Donald Trump and the geezer from North Korea to be put on a boat that gets sent around the world for the next 25 years, Neville Southall says as he sinks back into his chair. Why do we love Frank Bruno? Documentary telling the story of Welsh goalkeeper Neville Southalls unconventional rise to the top. But you dont get sent off or chucked out for using a derogatory homophobic term., Away from football, Southalls disdain for the Conservative government is plain. Yes there is the odd Everton and Wales tale, of course. Go to work. He and the presenter laughed at me, but we came within 90 minutes of it. [134], Southall married Eryl Williams in June 1980. There was a time when, during his long career at Everton from 1981-98, Southall was arguably the best goalkeeper in the world. MLS# 6358357. [79] Despite this, Royle dedicated an entire chapter of his 2005 autobiography to decrying Southall as a "potential weak link". So she must be able to imagine that some people are born in the wrong bodies. I actually thought I was coming back to Wales for a job elsewhere, but it never materialised. [138], Southall is a teetotaller; this fact, coupled with his shy personality and dedication to football gave him a reputation as something of a loner. [103] Southall was injured, and so missed the match against Denmark in Copenhagen, which ended in a 10 defeat with Eddie Niedzwiecki in goal. He tells me, movingly, about the two foster children he and his wife look after and he finds new energy when compiling a list of people he wants me to contact. I know exactly what hes going through. I like him because hes calm but Id go with Pickford. After a few engaging and surreal hours, Southall stays on to talk even when the tape is off. "Let's put it this way, if we could play the way we used to, we'd smash them. But the first gay footballer will be a multimillionaire. [28] However, he began to suffer from ulcerated toes, which gave him severely swollen feet and caused him pain and discomfort throughout matches. Dominic Cummings can go to Durham but the rest of us cant. Neville Southall was a much loved and successful footballer but this is far from a book revelling in his past glories but his reflections on mental health and other taboos. Britain is not a level playing field. 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